Dear Kitty: Am I unloveable?

For as long as I can remember, I have wanted to be in a relationship. In kindergarten, I chased Richard around the schoolyard, trying to kiss him. In high school I dated Jeremy until he broke up with me. The same thing happened with James. And so began the pattern of being left and holding on. I didn't date anyone...
December 07, 2020 — Other Nature

Dear Kitty: cycle of self-defeat

I am a mid 20s queer person who feels like I am behind in all ways. I have never been in a relationship or been sexually intimate with many people. Whenever I think about having sex or even talking about sex I get a lot of anxiety because of my inexperience. And feel really embarrassed to admit that I haven't had...
November 23, 2020 — Other Nature